It has been said, rightly so, that every story has a beginning.
One need only look at literature to see some opening lines that have definitely stood the test of time. From Charles Dickens declaring in A Tale of Two Cities that “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times,” to Herman Melville inviting the readers of Moby Dick to “Call me Ishmael,” history is full of great opening lines and beginnings of stories.
These classic openers have grabbed the reader’s attention hook line, and in Moby Dick‘s case very large sinker for generations.
While beginnings are important, one cannot and should not stop there. By stopping at the beginning line of A Tale of Two Cities, one would know nothing more than that times were both good and bad.
The same can be true of Moby Dick where the hunt for the white whale consumes Captain Ahab and his crew becoming far more than just knowing to call a guy Ishmael.
So, it is with all of us. While we are not classic literature, we also have our origin stories and events that shape who we are and what pursuits we follow.
Don’t worry, this is not a back in the day when little Ryan was born kind of story. Although, it is safe to say if we weren’t all born, none of us would be here.
No, this is a tale of when my love of baseball took root. and much like Dickens the tale of my first baseball game experience was both the best of times and the worst of times.
As I have mentioned previously, I grew up as a Baltimore Orioles fan who bled Orange and Black pretty much from the time I can remember.
I followed football as well, but baseball was always the sport that drew me in just a little bit more. As such, I tried to catch all the games that I could on the radio and television. I could recite lineups and stats that would make even the most avid statistician take notice.
So, you can imagine my excitement when I learned that I was going to get to go to Memorial Stadium to see the Orioles play in person in September of 1983. Aside from the thrill of going to the game for me, 1983 was a very pivotal year for the Orioles as they were in the first year under new manager Joe Altobelli following retirement number one of Earl Weaver and spoiler alert they went on to win the World Series that year over the Philadelphia Phillies.
Of course, I am getting ahead of myself since no one knew for sure in September what October would hold. Needless to say, there was a buzz throughout Birdland on the anticipation of what could be.
Speaking of anticipation, like most young boys gong to their first baseball game, I had high hopes and higher expectations that I was going to catch a home run ball hit by Cal Ripken, Jr. and get all kinds of player autographs before the game.
I was joined in my traveling party by my mom, a family friend and his nephew. The sky was the limit and I was ready to make the most of the ballpark experience. We all loaded into the car and headed up to Baltimore (or Balmer if you are from there) which was about a 30 minute drive from where we lived.
Throughout the drive we excitedly talked about who we would see first and which inning we wanted to catch the home run ball in since it would be greedy to want to catch all of the home run balls that were hit our way.
We arrived in Baltimore in plenty of time having pledged to arrive early and see the sights to avoid the traffic. After walking around the Inner Harbor area, it was time to head to the stadium.
It was at this moment that the realization occurred that the tickets that would gain us entrance into the hallowed walls of Memorial Stadium were not with us in Baltimore, but were in fact back in Gaithersburg which was 30 minutes away and at this time even further away in traffic.
Looking back now with 29 years or so of hindsight, I want to say that I handled the news of the ticket situation with dignity and grace and the cool assurance that comes from knowing that things like this happen and that the world goes on but the key is to keep calm.
The reality of course is that 8-year-old me did not take the news well at all. And who can blame young me? I was at the cusp of seeing my heroes, of eating hot dogs until I was blue in the face, and of course catching that pivotal home run while getting all of those autographs. Now, all of that was in jeopardy, and I was not pleased and was far from calm.
In the end, we made it to the game around the fifth inning, found our seats and watched the Orioles play the Milwaukee Brewers who had not yet moved to the National League at this time. (Why the Brewers did not move back to the American League instead of the Astros for 2013 is another story for another day, but is no less puzzling).
I did not catch that home run ball. I did not get any autographs. I did eat a hot dog and I most definitely discovered that baseball is so much better in person. There is a buzz around ballparks that really can’t be duplicated even with the most high definition of televisions with Dolby surround sound and the freshest of popcorn smells being pumped into the media room. To truly experience baseball is to experience it in person.
Since moving to Texas I have adopted the Astros into my stable of teams that I follow and try to attend as many games as I can each year in Minute Maid Park, in addition to traveling the country and going to ballparks both small and large.
I have also since caught my share of balls despite striking out in my first attempt in 1983. No matter the ballpark size I still get the same feeling walking in as I did as that 8-year-old boy experiencing it for the first time.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not a huge fan of crowds so the push and shove on the escalators and concourses can get tiring. But once I am in my seat, the magic begins all over again and it is like I am seeing it all for the first time through the eyes of younger me.
For those few hours in the stadium, I don’t worry about the stress of life, or the outside world. It is just the game and me; well and thousands of my closest friends.
So, while that September night in 1983 did not go completely to plan, it was indeed the best of times and the worst of times and introduced me to the white whale that I have chased across state lines ever since.
It also taught me to always check and double check that I have the tickets before leaving for the ballpark.
Now if you will excuse me, I think I need to catch up on some Dickens.
Copyright 2013 R. Anderson